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The Father losing his leaves

‘The Father’ directed by Florian Zeller (2020)

Adapted by Florian Zeller’s acclaimed stage play, his debut as a movie director is every bit as devastating and memorable as I expected. Anthony Hopkins brings a depth to the role of a man suffering from dementia who by the end reveals to a nurse that he is “losing his leaves, the branches, the wind and the rain”.

This rare moment of self realisation follows many moments of confusion for him, and for us watching the movie. Zeller cleverly leaves many details unexplained and we, like the father, often don’t quite know where we are. What seems to be his own flat turns out the that of his daughter and we fully understand why the visiting nurses seem like threats to his independence.

Hopkins delivers a master class swinging from being a control freak to a man losing a grip on reality. This is a terrifying horror movie despite the absence of monsters. When the father complains “nobody tells me anything”, I cracked up because I heard the voice of my own mother.

The genius of this film is that it puts the viewer inside the head of the victim in a way that never seems manipulative or trite. This is fate that anyone approaching old age fears with good reason.

Elder care for savages

THE SAVAGES written & directed by Tamara Jenkins (USA, 2007)
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Though this movie received universal acclaim upon release, there were the inevitable naysayers. It’s interesting to read some of the negative comments. One says the story is depressing because it’s too much like real life while another says he was disappointed because he had expected a comedy.

I confess that, having glanced at the DVD cover image, I thought it would be more comic than dramatic. There are some amusing scenes but nothing to laugh out loud about. This is not so surprising since it touches upon a number heavy themes including sibling rivalry, mid-life crises, parental abuse and, most serious of all, dementia and dying. Not much cause for hilarity in this list!

It stars Laura Linney and Philip Seymour Hoffman as Wendy and Jon Savage. Both are single with messed up personal relationships, both have aspirations as writers and both are fundamentally unfulfilled. Continue reading

STILL ALICE  directed by Richard Glatzer and Wash Westmoreland (USA, 2014)

This moving and sobering film is based on a bestseller by Lisa Genova. Her novel was initially self published after being rejected by numerous publishers who believed that readers would not be interested in such a depressing subject. Just goes to show what they know!

The movie vindicates Genova’s decision to choose a woman with an early onset of Alzheimer’s as a means showing the devastating effect of dementia on an active, otherwise healthy, individual’s life. This is a film about living with the disease rather than dying from it.

Catherine Shoard, writing in The Guardian, gets it spectacularly wrong when she says that the film “perpetuates the notion that dementia is more tragic when it affects the intellectual”. It does nothing of the kind.

The fact that Alice is a respected university professor of linguistics in no way suggests that the loss of communication would be any less devastating in a less prestigious job, as a film critic for example! Continue reading

FASCIST DEMENTIA

I received this as an ‘alternative’ birthday card a few years back but in the light of recent views expressed by warmonger Mitt Romney it still seems relevant.

The quotation is attributed to political ‘thinker’ Michael Ledeen, former foreign policy advisor to Ronald Reagan – the anagram is by Heathcote Williams.