As I try to psyche myself up for another term , I need to be reminded of  this check list of principles I found in Earl W.Stevick’s inspiring book ‘Humanism In Language Teaching’ which is available in PDF form here. Many of the principles could equally be adapted as general guidelines  for parents.
  • Kindness is more effective than coercion. Firmness is more effective than permissiveness.
  • When students feel good about the course and about themselves, they will learn better than when they do not.
  • Any method that does not require serious and occasionally onerous effort from learners will be ineffective.
  • Within us (or within our grasp) we have undreamed-of possibilities.
  • Concentrated, intuitive introspection together with courage and patience will make possible unlimited growth in constructive and socially desirable directions.
  • Skilled and sensitive understanding of another person can release that other person’s whole self so it can deal adequately with whatever needs to be dealt with, whether cognitive or otherwise.
  • Rational, critical inquiry can deal adequately with everything that really needs to be dealt with.
  • A model of teaching (or thinking) which makes full use of one’s own personal strengths is superior to models which demand strengths of other kinds. (Corollary: a model which demands strength in an area where one is weak is misguided.)